Monday, September 29, 2008
Typhoon Jangmi
And it was a very gentle beginning. Matter of fact, as of Friday night it was only supposed to nick the southern portion of Taiwan and blow some rain our way (Taipei is waaaayyy north). Friday night was quiet. Saturday morning there was light, misty rain and everyone was still out and about. Including us! By Saturday night the rain got heavier and there was some evidence of "whistling" wind. You get that a lot here. These tall buildings are so close together and when the wind whips through them it whistles! Or screams - depends on whether or not it wakes you up from a dead sleep and you have no idea what is going on. Anyway. By Sunday afternoon all hell broke loose. It was raining in a hundred different directions and the wind was fierce. If we read all of the weather reports correctly, this turned out to be a category 5 storm with winds reaching 90-125 mph. Monday we had our very first "Typhoon Day." It's like a snow day, but no snow. All of the government offices were closed, schools were closed and imagine this - IBM was closed! Matt was still glued to his laptop, but things at work were much slower than normal. By Monday the storm was pretty much past us, but a lot of rain fell.
Besides looking around our little village, it is very hard for us to gage what kind of damage was done to Taipei. We cannot understand the local news and the larger venues for news tend to mention the event on the island as a whole. Caitlin and I went out to the park today and all we could see was natural debris. The clean up crews were already out sweeping up the streets with their adorable pointy Chinese field worker hats. These hats are a riot! They are painted in florescent orange and yellow stripes so they can been seen (for miles). The kids at the elementary school were out cleaning up the playground with giant sets of chopsticks. Everyone is getting a jump on the cleaning while it is still cool (let me tell you, 82 degrees almost feels cold). The continued thick cloud cover keeps the sun from baking us. I love the sun and bright blue skies, but the coolness feels glorious!
I've attached a video clip that Matt took of the storm on Sunday. Enjoy!
Thursday, September 25, 2008
Hong Kong - Part 2
This is what the people of Hong Kong call a "path." This was only half way up.
After nap time & snack...
We packed up the baby and headed underground to train over to Tung Chung. Tung Chung is home to the Ngong Ping Cable Car which offers a shorter means of travel to the highland city of Ngong Ping, home to Po Lin Monastery and Tian Tan Buddha. The cable car ride is a 3.5 mile, approximately 25 minute ride in a glass enclosed ski lift. During the 25 minute journey, you can see panoramic views over the North Lantau Country Park, the South China Sea, Hong Kong International Airport, the Tung Chung valley, Ngong Ping Plateau and surrounding terrain and waterways. As you get closer to the city of Ngong Ping, you can see The Big Buddha and the Po Lin Monastery. As uninterested in heights as I am, I have to admit that the views from up there are absolutely breathtaking.
Up, up, up we go!
This is the cable that carried our car over the water and up the mountains. How's that for feeling secure?
Matt & Caitlin enjoying the view
Our 1st glimpse of the "Big Buddha"
The view was spectacular!
The village of Ngong Ping
The tea house in Ngong Ping
The tea house garden. Sooooo pretty!
Before the cable car system was erected in 2006, there wasn't a city of Ngong Ping and the monastery and big, giant Buddha probably had an extremely quiet existence on this earth. Perhaps they grew tired of it that way or perhaps this sort of tourist attraction was necessary to provide the essential funding to keep it all financially afloat - I don't know, but I loved all the quaint touristyness that this little "town" had to offer. I only wish that we had more time there.
We closed Sunday night with a rather uneventful dinner...we stopped at the first place we saw that wasn't McDonald's and the food really wasn't all that good. I think Caitlin agreed because she didn't eat much of anything. After that it was back to the hotel, a round of baths and showers for all and an early night into bed. We were all hot and tired from running around.
Monday, September 22nd
We woke up very early and quickly set out to find a decent breakfast for the 3 of us. We found a "pop up" cafe called "The Met" in the center of the mall completely filled with folks dressed for work grabbing coffee and breakfast to go. We enter, the only non-Asian looking people around, with hungry bellies and a container of Cheerios just ready to make a mess of the place...we didn't do so bad. We were definitely something to keep your eye on though (as many did). We propped Miss C up on her daddy's laptop backpack and filled a bowl with Cheerios and milk. She gobbled that up before our breakfasts were served so her 2nd breakfast was a combination of fruit and whatever she grabbed off of our plates. You know, I am a firm believer in straps. Without straps to keep this child in place neither of us can sit and eat. Life without straps leaves us dealing with a mess, but we managed. There was a little spillage, some chasing and a lot of food stuck in between those little fingers, but we got through the meal feeling happily nourished and rather clever for having both spotted a place close by and devising a way to get her at table height and keep her there. Whew! Check. Breakfast done.
From breakfast we moved onto the Taiwan Bureau of Consulate Affairs (BOCA). This is where we handed in all of our paperwork to get the proper visas issued so that we can get our Alien Residence Cards. Here is where I offer many, many thanks to Matt's administrative assistant, Kirsten. This whole process was extremely difficult to get through due to many language barriers and lack of information. There are so many different steps involved and papers need to be copied, filled out and authenticated, but none of these things are actually written out so you can be prepared ahead of time. Kirsten did a lot of homework on our behalf so we were ahead of the game. We lacked a few copies of things and the proper amount of money to pay for this service so Matt took a run to the bank and a Kinko's type place for copies while I entertained Caitlin at the BOCA. The paperwork would be completed by 4pm. Check.
From here we went to the American Express office to pick up Matt's new credit card. Check.
Now we're off to IBM Hong Kong where Matt spent the better part of 6 weeks this past spring. Here we met Tiffancy, the administrative assistant to the VP that Matt was the technical assistant to. Tiffancy is a warm,. adorable woman who just loves Matt. She may be in her mid 40's, but it was so hard to tell. I think what makes Matt so unique to most other foreigners is that when he is in another land he wants to immerse himself in their culture. He wants to be a part of their daily lives and they just love him for that! There are few limits to what he'll go visit, eat or do. I admire this sooo much about him. I am not quite that adventurous and really wish I could be, but it is truly not in my wiring. Anyway, Matt had been in touch with Tiffancy and she had reservations for us to go out for dim sum.
"Dim sum" is a Cantonese phrase that literally means "to touch the heart" or "to order to your heart's content." I think I forgot to mention that in Hong Kong they speak Cantonese not Mandarin so the 2 words I use here in Taipei were completely useless. Luckily there was all this British influence so English came in handy! Anyway, dim sum is Chinese cuisine which involves a wide variety of light dishes served alongside tea. The portions are small and shared. They may include meat, seafood, veggies, deserts and fruit. The food is usually served in bamboo steamer baskets or small plates. So what was is like? Oh, how I wish I took some pictures of all this! I don't know why I didn't, I think it was because I was a little unsure of what I was going to try to put in my mouth and that took away from my picture taking. Plus, I could already tell that people were looking at us - mostly due to Caitlin - and I didn't want to make more of a scene. We sat in a huge banquet room that could have easily been set up for a wedding. There were round tables of all different sizes. The larger tables had big, giant lazy susans in the middle. They set up a baby chair for Miss C and we all parked ourselves while Tiffancy poured tea and picked out our cuisine. Seriously, I was slightly terrified by all this. Remember that not so adventurous spirit I mentioned earlier? Okay, so perhaps terrified is an exaggeration. But seriously, what on earth were we going to feed Caitlin? Chicken nuggets anyone? How about a cheeseburger for the other non-Asian looking person? The big one with crazy hair. Don't forget fries. Oh, and pass the ketchup. Did I mention that there were only chopsticks to work with here? How about a fork? Knife? Actually, on a good day I can hold my own with the chopsticks. Usually the wooden ones work best for me. The wood seems to offer a little more sticking power. And I always have a set of utensils for Caitlin - not that she actually uses them. Anyway. The food started to arrive. We had super yummy fried won tons with an awesome sweet and sour dipping sauce, steamed BBQ pork buns (also very good), marinated, chopped, steamed chicken with a garlicy/oniony/cilantroy salsa sort of stuff (quite tasty, but cold and I wasn't expecting that), cuddle fish in some sort of hot sauce (did not touch the stuff), fried rice with meat(very, very yummy!) and a Chinese cake (ordered especially for Caitlin by Tiffancy which was soo good). So, the Chinese cake answered a burning question I've had for a while. Why are Asian kitchens often missing ovens? Answer: because they steam their cakes. STEAM. Imagine that!!! The cake came out in one of those little bamboo steamer baskets. Tiffancy popped up and single handedly "sliced" a piece with cop sticks - a maneuver I would still be standing there trying to figure out and then plated it. The cake was awesome and Caitlin devoured every bit of it! She also liked the chicken. With hesitation that I didn't want our host to see, I tried everything except the cuddle fish. To my most sincere surprise, I did not die in total disgust. I actually liked it. I even learned a new trick. You can eat your rice in a bowl with this crazy glass spoon instead of fussing with chopsticks and a plate...of course I only learned this after I fussed with the chopsticks and rice on a plate. As with most experiences in a new land, the food was only a small part of what I walked away with that day. The conversation, learning new ways of life, getting questions answered, making friends and extending invitations for future visits here and there lent so much more to my memory of it all.
Full bellied, we rushed back to the hotel to check out by 2pm and then made our way to the airport check in station at the train station to check our bags. Check. Once the bags were out of our hands we taxied back to the Peak Tram in hopes to finally make our way up the mountain see the sights. The line was short of course...who in their right mind would want to go up an unairconditioned trolley to see a smog covered sky on a really hot day? Only us. At the top we ate some gelato and quickly got back down again. Check. Note to reader: I blogged, in great detail, about the Peak Tram in Hong Kong, Part 1.
The view from the top of Victoria's Peak
Caitlin & Mommy at the top of the mountain
By 4:30pm we were on our way back to the BOCA office to pick up our passport and visa paperwork. Everything was finished, as promised. Check. We then hopped back into a cab in rolled back to the airport train station. Caitlin had been going strong without a nap and finally gave in on the cab ride to the train station. We were so happy that she was able to settle herself to sleep. It was a long day for her and we still had a some travel left to do. We checked into the airport and refuled/rehydrated /cleaned up at the Cathay Pacific Airlines lounge. It was a short wait before boarding time and Caitlin woke up right before we had to take her out of her seat. Luckily it was a short flight and we were home safely before we knew it!! Whew, what a weekend!
Tuesday, September 23, 2008
Hong Kong
Friday, September 19, 2008
Our Little Dumpling Eats her 1st Dumpling!
Sometimes my dinner creations, although well intended, go a little wrong. I was trying to clean out the fridge for our upcoming trip to Hong Kong and the final turnout wasn't so great. So I told Matt to pick up his favorite Taiwanese food on his way home for dinner. He brought home lots and lots of dumplings (apparently Matt forgot that we are leaving this weekend)! Caitlin had already eaten dinner, but she still wanted more so we gave her a dumpling! She ate a few bites of it and in the end she wasn't all that interested, but she gave it a try!
Tuesday, September 16, 2008
Pure Bliss
Monday, September 15, 2008
Sinlaku Typhoon - Another weekend, another cultural experience
To be precise, a typhoon is a tropical cyclone that forms in the northwest Pacific Ocean. More specifically, they form in the within the Pacific Ocean from Asia, north of the equator, and west of the international date line. Storms from the Eastern and Central Pacific crossing the date line are re-designated as typhoons. And if you're interested, the word "typhoon" comes from the Chinese 颱風/台风 (pinyin: tái fēng; Jyutping: toi4fung1). Whatever that translates to. Thanks Wikipedia. To make it easier to relate to, a typhoon is simply a hurricane on this side of the world.
On September 13th the fourth typhoon to hit Taiwan this season made landfall. Typhoon Sinlauku. Each typhoon is given a name, but not after a person. Instead, they generally refer to animals, flowers, astrological signs, and a few personal names. Typhoon names are submitted years in advance and can be recycled. The name of this past typhoon, Sinlauku was last used in 2002. "Sinlauku" refers to the Legendary Kosrae Goddess. I can't seem to find too much information on this legendary Goddess so we'll just have to take it at face value.
The storm was in and out of tropical storm and typhoon status. At it's strongest it may have been a category 2 storm, but I'm not sure where it was parked at that strength. It was a super slow moving storm, creeping along at about 8 miles per hour (seriously, I can walk faster than that) and therefore dumping massive amounts of rain for a long period of time. The rain began on Friday and it rained and rained and rained...today (Tuesday) is the first time I've seen a blue sky since last Thursday! Oh my goodness, it rained so hard. It rained in a million different directions and you couldn't see a thing for a few minutes. The it would slow down, but never actually stop. I'm pretty sure I've never seen so much constant rain. With all the mountains around us I expected to see some scary wind action. I think strongest winds we felt were early on Saturday morning and after that there wasn't much of anything.
Luckily, we never lost power, cable or the Internet. Thank goodness because I don't even have a candle here (not to mention that I don't know where to get one either). We watched a lot of Elmo, stuck stickers, ran around outside in the rain, napped and ate. We got totally soaked while venturing out to visit a friend's dwelling nearby and had lasagna, salad and browines a la mode (oh wow everything was sooo good!) and met a few more IBM expats. It was good family boding time, but we're so happy to see the sun shine again!
Friday, September 12, 2008
The "Tub"
The club isn't too far from our house...probably less than a 10 minute cab ride if you're going in the middle of the day. It's located right next to "The Grand Hotel" which is something I totally love about it. Even at the most simple restaurant you have a fantabulous view of the Grand Hotel and all of its color and majesty. The other thing that I really love about it is that even in the middle of a major bustling metropolis, the setting is serene. No one can do serene quite like the Asian culture. They use landscape, water and music to block out the sounds of the city and post signs that ban cell phone use (not a problem for me because I still don't have one and am loving the freedom).
Because I love to eat, let's talk about the food. Oh, the options...first, there is bar called "Rendezvous" where you can eat, watch a game, go to happy hour, enjoy live entertainment or have a fun dinner. In addition to a zillion other cuisines they serve traditional western bar food and cocktails. Yum. It's quite polished and more like a swanky night club meets martini and cigar bar rather than a sports bar. Complete with lights and ambiance...Speaking of sports bar, the "ACC Sports Bar" has a pool table, giant flat screen TV and a bunch of other manly stuff (and since I'm all girly and I'm doing the blogging that's about all I'll mention on that. I'll probably never step foot in that room.). Next door to "Rendezvous" is the "Napa Grille." Oh how I love that name! Anything with the word "Napa" in it brings a smile to my face. Gotta love California wine country! Anyway, the "Napa Grille" is the finest dining at the ACC. Complete with an age limit and dress code. Obviously, we won't be frequenting this establishment too often. But when we do our taste buds will relish unique flavor combinations such as "swordfish carpaccio with eggplant caviar or pan-seared yellowfin tuna steak with lemon oreganata potatoes and sautéed mustard greens." Hmmm...do that serve that with chicken instead of fish? On second thought, don't worry about it. I'll just drink the wine. Who needs food when there are vast selections of wine from the Napa Valley?
Then there is "Sigis" which offers both indoor and outdoor dining. I just love the look of this place and the food...oh, the food (can you tell that we've been there a couple times already?) It's everything you need when you can't get your stove to stay lit or you can't find the right ingredients to make anything you've got a hankering for or you just CAN'T (believe me, there is such a syndrome as "CAN'T." I believe it's unique to expats in Taipei). And they love Caitlin-complete with all her messes and fun. It's my own special mommy place for happy hour. Come to think of it, Sigis leads to many happy hours. Preceding dinner happiness is because I know I don't have to cook and my family will still have a healthy dinner. During dinner happiness is actually more like elation because I am consuming really good food and I didn't have to do anything but point. Then there is post dinner happiness because I know I won't get stuck doing the dishes and can just bask in the joy of a food coma. The portions my be large or perfectly normal...I don't know because I clear my plate each time I'm served. Simply put, I love it. Oh, and they serve chocolate fondue. I've never actually had it, but the first women visitor that I have will be tossed in a cab to join me for wine and chocolate covered bliss. Beware!
Finally there is the "Terrace." The "Terrace" is the most simple of dining establishments, but also very tasty. Caitlin and I have been there for lunch at least 2 times each week we've been here. After a morning of swimming, climbing and playing this is the perfect spot! They've got a salad bar and a dessert display - complete with cookies, YUM!!! I haven't actually tried the cookies yet in fear that they might be delicious and then I'll need to have one every time I'm there. Obviously I have no self control when it comes to cookies. Chocolate chip to be specific. They've got great paninis too...okay, enough with this food business. I'm starting to get hungry and we just left the place!!
For more reading pleasure go to www.americanclub.org/tw. Hope to be able to bring y'all there someday!
Wednesday, September 10, 2008
Rain, rain go away! Little Caitlin Wants To Play!
We walked past the security guards and greeted them with a cheery, "Ni hao!" They must have been thinking, "Silly American girls. Don't they see the GIANT clouds looming overhead?" Apparently not. In no way did I think it was actually going to rain. I just thought it was going to be a cloudy day. Well, I got about 1/4 of the way down our lane and the heavens opened up! This was some serious rain. For a split second, I thought about continuing to the park...although I have to admit now that would be a serious error in judgement. What do you do with a 20 month old in a park in the rain (should I mention that I'm in a foreign country? Or have I established that fact yet? For whatever the reason I feel I need to keep reminding myself. Like being in the rain at a park in the US would make any difference). Come on now, Tara. So we parked ourselves under and overhang because I learned quite quickly that giving an umbrella to a toddler is...well, pointless. Not that umbrella lacks sharp, pointy edges that could wind up in any number of unwanted places as we bounce along the bumpy edge of the road most commonly referred to as a sidewalk, but these are hardly sidewalks. Let's take a moment to examine the "sidewalks" here in Taipei.
Matt often compares Taipei to NYC. I'm not sure where he comes up with these ideas. There are many striking differences between Taipei and NYC. For example the roasted ducks hanging in store windows, unclearly marked or oddly posted street signs, the Chinese language EVERYWHERE, the clear disregard for pedestrians and the zillions of scooters are just to name a few. What really gets me is the lack of space for people to safely travel on foot. What's worse than that (at least for me and Caitlin) is the lack of ramps or any way for strollers or wheelchairs to maneuver in and out of buildings. I'll stick with my sidewalk rant for now. Just like NYC, it's not uncommon for people here to not have their own form of transportation. There is a decent rail, bus and taxi system throughout Taipei and having a car could actually be more of a pain . But the sidewalks, THE SIDEWALKS ARE DEPLORABLE. Now I haven't frequented NYC that much in recent years, but I lived in Philly for a while and with the exception of Manayunk, there are respectable sidewalks. Not like your typical suburban sidewalks either. They have those extra wide ones to handle the large amount of foot traffic (or perhaps to handle the extra large cheese steak eating population). Not in Taipei. If there are sidewalks without big metal covered boxes plunked in the middle of the walkway there's the occasional scooter rider who decides that he/she is too good to ride in the street like the rest of the motorized world. Then there are the potholes, uneven surfaces, stairs and other random obstacles that just make it so darn difficult to get around. Now imagine me with one hand on an umbrella, one hand steering the stroller and one hand guiding the umbrella I just handed Caitlin. Ooops, is that 3 hands? You can see my problem here - even without the added luxury of potholes.
So, we got wet. And laughed all the way home! The security guard met us at our gate and tried to help us through (I had to close 2 umbrellas in order to fit through) by holding another umbrella on the other side. They are so sweet to us and I desperately want to communicate to them - "Thank you, thank you, thank you!"
Monday, September 8, 2008
The Danshui Experience
Our First Cultural Outting
On Sunday, September 7th we decided to meet some of Matt's coworkers, their families and friends at the coastal town of Danshui. Danshui is just about a half hour from Taipei and the rail system is such easy and relaxing way to travel. So, we packed up the girl a few snacks and we were on our way.
A little history...according to Tara's interpretation of "The Rough Guide to Taiwan"
The name Danshui literally means, "fresh water" and is thought to have been given this name by early Chinese seafarers. The settlement was established around Fort Santo Domingo by the Spanish in 1628 and later occupied by the Dutch. By 1662 the Dutch were driven off as more Chinese immigrants started to arrive. Danshui boomed after the Treaty of Beijing opened up the port to foreign trade in 1860. Soon thereafter, Robert Swinhow, a British vice consul arrived and started a full-fledged customs office. This enabled Danshui to become a bustling port exporting Oolong and Baozhong teas. Unfortunately, Danshui's harbour lacked deep waters so it began to lose precedence to Keelung by the 1920's. Today it is home to a healthy tourist trade as well as home to two universities and a growing number of Taipei commuters. It's also well known for beautiful sunsets.
How the day went...
As you're reading this, please keep in mind that we have only been parents for 20 months. 20 months is hardly enough time to know exactly what you are supposed to do with your child in a foreign country without a car, right? So we may have made a poor decision, but it was based on a prior experience that in hindsight was not at all related to how things would go on this particular day...and so the story goes. Here's how it all went down.
We made the executive decision NOT to bring Caitlin's stroller. Somehow we had the impression that we were going to a park-like place (I, in some dreamy far off moment of wonder thought we were going to the beach!) . Someplace that Caitlin could run a-muck. Hmmmm. Not so much (insert Borat accent here! It will make you laugh, just do it!). This was more like being on the boardwalk at the Jersey shore on the 4th of July in 4,000 degree heat and 200% humidity. There were people everywhere. There was a river on one side and make shift sort of shops, concessions, carnivalish games and zillions of people consuming entire grilled squid on a stick or 2 foot high ice cream sort of things (someplace where any American would totally expect to find milk, but alas no milk in this "ice cream") while texting on their cell phones on the other. There were loud speakers with Chinese gibberish belching out random advertisements and music. There were balloon makers and junk sellers. This was no place for a toddler to have any sort of freedom.
In all this chaos, we still managed to be the center of attention. Well perhaps not we, but she. Oh and the 7 foot tall white guy we were with, Adam. Adam has self proclaimed that he is the biggest guy in Taiwan and we can claim for Caitlin that she is the cutest. Caitlin gets a lot of attention in our everyday travels, but nothing like this. People were stopping and staring. They wanted her picture, to touch her hair or to simply get her attention. The poor girl was just dying to jump in the river and play with the "bubbles." She kept asking me for her "soooouit" and pointing to her body (as if to show me where it should be).
We forgot to feed the poor girl a snack, but kept her very well hydrated on sugary lemonade. By 5:00pm, she had enough "fun" and we left the crowd to head home. Caitlin slept soundly on the lap of luxury (her daddy) the entire train ride home.
Caitlin sleeping on her daddy
Friday, September 5, 2008
Heller Family Traditions
The pizza tradition materialized from my Catholic roots and dates back to the mid-1980's. My dear mother grew weary of stuffing unwanted fish sticks down the throats of her land-lubbing children on Friday night's during Lent(If interested in learning more about the origins of Lent, click here: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lent) and gave into the most universally beloved mainstream American cuisine - pizza. Ahhh yes...pizza.
Thursday, September 4, 2008
Melting Pot
So the grand epiphany happened at the children's park across from our home. Now that I've escalated the "moment" to a "grand epiphany" I had better make this good. Sure hope I can convey it all with the pomp and circumstance my loving readers are hoping for. I foresee this post being in draft mode until I get it right...anyway. I had lofty goals of getting to the park yesterday, but I never seemed to get off the webcam. Since it's so hot here, it is morning or bust when it comes to outdoor parks. Today I got up as soon as Matt left for work, showered, ate breakfast and was waiting for Little Miss C to rise and shine. It is time to get this girl out of the house and let her run, run, run!! (Running leads to sleeping and sleeping leads to blogging time for Mommy.)
Water bottles in hand, we strolled the park before 10am. This park is sooo much fun! There are tons of things for Caitlin to climb on and the grounds are completely rubberized to minimize boo-boos. What great thinking. Most of this particular park has been updated within the last 6 months. Caitlin just loved it! She climbed, bounced of the ground (poor girl is only so good at walking), went on the wee-wa (Caitlinese for swing) and did the wee (Caitlinese for slide). She ran around until her hair was wet with sweat and every inch of her skin was red from heat and sun. (Note to all mom's and grandmom's reading this...she had sunscreen on, a hat and sunglasses. As you can imagine, only the sunscreen remained). So while Caitlin was having a blast, I was becoming totally engaged in the most amazing conversations with women from all over the world. One was from Japan. She moved here last Saturday and will be here for 2-3 years. One was from Jones Beach, NY and she's been here for 3 years, but leaving soon. One was from Columbia, but married to a man from Sweden so she speaks Spanish and English and is learning Mandarin. They have been here for 6 months and are expected to stay for 2-3 years. She lives very close to us too! Anyway, we were all talking and smiling and watching our kids run a-muck in the sweltering heat of Taipei, Taiwan. We all spoke English (some of us more than others) and we were all foreign to this land. So here I am laughing and sharing experiences with these women from all over the world a zillion miles away from my native land and finding myself a new comfort zone...in the melting pot. It finally occurred to me that it's not just me out here so far away from "home." I've actually never met anyone who has been transferred this far away. So to have this occur to me, in my very own little life has left me rather self absorbed. I am so thankful to have met these women, to embrace the playspace, the heat and the moment of clarity...I think I finally arrived. The jet lag has passed and I am present in my life.
So if it's not clear to my readers, I will articulate the answer to my rephrased question, "What am I going to do here?" I am going to go out each day. Not only am I going to go out, but I am going to reach out to people. I will turn friends into family and make home where I am, not where I'll be in 2 years.
I'll also make sure my daughter has clothes on that cover her legs a little more (those plastic surfaces get way too hot) and perhaps go to an indoor playspace when it's above 90 degrees. Phew, it was a hot one!!
Tuesday, September 2, 2008
Shopping Adventures
Okay, so first things first. We knew where we wanted to go and generally how to get there, but we had to find a way to communicate that to a cab driver who most likely didn't speak any English. Matt found the address and printed it in both English and Chinese. We also carry our home address in both English and Chinese so we can get back here. Way to go Matt. I would have never thought of that. Since we don't have a car we needed to figure out how to get a cab. We walked past the security office outside of our building as asked if they could help us get a cab. Unfortunately, they don't speak any English. BUT, they heard the word "cab" and came rushing out of the office, out of the gates of our complex and ran down the street to the corner to hail us a cab. Very sweet and helpful, but we totally could have done that ourselves (if we had only realized that there are zillions of cabs all over the place just waiting for us!!!). We felt really bad for making the poor guy run all over creation for such a simple task. So we hop in this cab, give the driver our destination and we're on our way.
About now I should mention that in his previously mention trip to the Wellcome, Matt brought home the most gigantic and delicious mango that any of us had ever seen. It was soooo good that Caitlin managed to eat about 3/4 of it herself. I don't think I realized she ate quite so much of it until I SAW IT FOR A SECOND TIME!!! Yes, it's what you're thinking. The child threw up mango all over the backseat of the cab. Luckily I had this adorable little straw bucket-type hat with us to catch it and a lifetime supply of Wet Ones to clean with. Oh my. What a mess. What a terrible feeling to totally stink up and mess up someone elses's vehicle and not even be able to say we're sorry. (Note to self...need to learn how to apologize in Chinese.) I cleaned everything the best I could and apologized profusely in English, took our throw-up hat and exited the vehicle. Okay, so we make it to Costco smelling like throw-up, partially wearing throw-up, concerned about what caused the child to throu-up and now we need to apply for a membership. Nice. We go to the customer service counter and they hand us an application (totally in Chinese) and ask for ID. Oops. We didn't bring our passports. Do they take driver's licenses? BINGO!! Okay, so aside from the fact that we can't read the application, we're in business. Somehow we made it though all that with only one minor problem - Matt's membership card has his picture and my name and mine has my picture and his name. Oh well, no one here knows how to say our names anyway.
I was so overwhelmed with our trip to Costco and the sheer volume of people within the store that when I saw giant boxes of Cheerios on a pallet, it nearly brought me to tears! The theme song to "Laverne & Shirley" started playing in my head, "...you're going to make it after all!" Seriously, Cheerios are a main staple in both mine and Caitlin's life. Without them, I have to think about serving a healthy breakfast. Thinking at any point before noon is just not easy for me. It is a well known fact among the expat families here that Cheerios are hard to come by. When you see them, buy them. Buy them in masses. I would have, but my dear husband was a little concerned about exactly how we were going to get home so I didn't push it and only bought 1 giant sized box. I knew I already had 2 other giant sized boxes stashed away at home.
We made it through the rest of our shopping adventure rather unscathed and even had an uneventful ride home. As soon as we arrived back at our complex the security guards came rushing out to meet us, grabbed our stuff and had it all in the elevator before we even paid for the cab. Once again, it was sweet and amazing all at the same time. Either everyone here is just so helpful or we look so totally clueless all the time that they pity us. I'm voting for the latter.
We braved another shopping venture the next day, this time to Carrefore. It's the French version of Wal-Mart. Of course, no trip is complete without some kind of combustion. Thankfully it was just a super wet diaper, but nonetheless I came home all wet as well. Caitlin also managed to lose a sock and tear the strap off of her hat (not the throw-up one, another). This girl is killing me!
Carrefore totally cracks me up. On top of all the crazy Chinese that I try to figure out there's all this French. The back of my mind is frantically calling out to my 9th grade French teacher and wishing I paid more attention...oh please faithful brain, don't fail me now! If I can crack this French business I might be able to shop here! Hmmm...not much luck with the French business. But I walked away with cheese and dijon mustard. Oh well.
We survived and I've survived a few trips out to the feared Wellcome all by myself. It's actually not all that bad. Turns out I was overreacting. Imagine that.
As for Caitlin, she's an overeater and an overdrinker. Always has been. I have seen this girl expel excess food and drink from her little body more often than any mother should. She loves to eat, but doesn't have a lot of room to keep it in. Her eating patterns were so thrown off from all the traveling that I really didn't have a good idea of exactly how much she had eaten and when. She's perfectly healthy and is doing rather well!
Monday, September 1, 2008
Moving In! All about our new home
The office is one of our favorite features. It's a glass and teak enclosed room right off the main living area. It's just so striking! Unfortunately, Matt will be spending a lot of time in there. At least he'll be able to see what the rest of us are doing.
One of the perks of this little overseas adventure is being able to work with an interior designer and pick out some furniture. It's so much fun to pick out things that you don't have to pay for and you only have to look at for 2 years! Everything we/I picked is more colorful, sparkly and edgy than anything I would normally pick. And guess what, we LOVE it!! Perhaps this will cure me of my obsession with beige...hmmmm, guess time will tell. So this dear, sweet, interior designer spoke pretty good English and we were able to communicate pretty well throughout the furniture/color process. She knew I didn't like the drapes in this apartment and that I wasn't allowed to change them. Thankfully she talked me into this apple green couch to offset them! She got a little stumped when we were picking furniture for Caitlin's room. I wanted a changing table and a convertible crib since she may work herself out of a regular one and into a bed while we're here. Apparently changing tables aren't all that common here. I showed her a picture of one on JCPenney.com and she got the idea...only it's about 7 inches too short. The changing pad from home hangs over the edge. Someone hand crafted this piece of furniture out of real wood (not particle board)! They did a great job otherwise. Then there's the crib...It's a beautiful sleigh style white crib and it's ENORMOUS!! Also hand crafted just for us. It doesn't fit any of the sheets I brought. I can't reach to lay her down in it (I tried once and wound up dumping her into the bed). I can actually fit in there with her (more on that later). So now we're on a mission to find sheets for this giant crib.